please keep in mind that you’re a work in progress
you improve each and every day
it’s never too late to accomplish anything
we are constantly changing so don’t give up
you can refine and redefine yourself and you work as much as you want
I will destroy you in the most beautiful way possible,
and when I leave you will finally understand
why storms are named after people.
If you wouldn’t do it to a man, then stop it. It doesn’t matter what your motivations are. Stop it. Figure out why you expect women to perform unpaid emotional labor for you. Figure out what’s prompting you to try to control women’s emotions and behaviors and faces. Figure out why you think that’s ok. And then do what you need to do to change that about yourself so that you can be a better man. Do what you need to do to make the world a safer place. Because if you’re not making yourself part of the solution, you’re part of the problem and we don’t need that. Stop it.